Houston Relationship & AASECT Certified Sex Therapist:

Eliza G. Boquin, MA, LMFT, CST

Relationship Therapist, Couples Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Energy Healing Practitioner committed to helping Black & Brown people to have healthier, mutually-satisfying, pleasure-filled relationships.

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Isn’t Love Supposed to Be Easy?

You knew relationships took effort, but this feels like too much. Every conversation feels hollow; it’s like you don’t even speak the same language. It’s normal to hit some bumps in the road, but it seems you’re on a never-ending rollercoaster ride. The connection just isn’t there anymore. Intimacy in any form, especially sex, feels like a chore. You’ve been wondering lately if this is as good as it’s going to get.

Dating is a bleak wasteland of apps that only leads to aimless small talk and “good morning” texts. You only engage because you’re trying to have an open mind and try something different.  Let’s be honest, you wish you could throw these experiences in the dumpster where they belong. You don’t have time to waste!  It seems the modern world has forgotten how to truly connect. 

You want something deeper, something to stand the test of time.  You want a relationship where you feel supported, desired, and understood. Sadly, you’re starting to doubt if that it can happen.  There’s work to do but you don’t know what it is or even where to start.

You haven’t lost all hope, but something needs to change soon. There has to be a way to revive your love life.

You’re Ready for Change

Despite being labeled as standoffish, conceited, and emotionless, people don’t see beyond the tough exterior you’ve built to protect yourself from getting hurt. In reality, you’re a person with a huge heart who feels everything deeply. You just don’t know what to do with all those emotions and can’t risk having someone use them against you.

Your upbringing taught you to be strong, bottle up your emotions, rely on no one, protect your heart, and focus primarily on building a successful career. Well, you followed the planned.  You’ve done great professionally, but this love thing ‌really has you second-guessing yourself. You’re afraid to open up and let someone into your heart then have them leave you.

What you really want is simple.

You want to feel protected and safe.

You want to feel desired and pursued.

You want to feel valued, understood, and respected.

You want someone to pour into you!

You Need the Right Therapist

People talk about the benefits of therapy, but do they know how hard it is to find the right therapist?!

You want someone you don’t have to spend half the time explaining your unique cultural experiences.  You want someone is informed about the unique stressors Black and Brown people experience.

You Want Therapy That Makes a Difference

You’re not looking to just vent about your issues.  You want real, measurable progress from your therapy. I get it. It’s frustrating to feel like you’re pouring time, energy, and money into something without seeing any benefits.

Overcome Your Relationship Anxiety

Just imagine what it would be like to finally be able to trust someone completely. Picture yourself feeling confident to communicate your needs and desires. 

What if you could be honest about how you’re feeling without worrying about how it will be misinterpreted?

How much better would your life be if you learned how to effectively deal with conflict?

Imagine being able to outwardly express the love and affection you feel for your partner.

You could relax during sex and overcome your performance anxiety.

Imagine enjoying sex!

Relationship and Sex Therapy Can Help

With the right tools and support, you can create the relationship you desire.  One built on a foundation of trust, honesty, and mutual respect. People who work together with common values report higher levels of intimacy. 

The journey towards a healthy and fulfilling relationship isn’t easy. It often involves navigating through disagreements, conflicts, and tough conversations. But, when both partners are committed, the rewards are a more resilient partnership. Investing in a relationship built on these principles can be one of the most rewarding experiences in life.

Take That First Step Towards Transformation

My name is Eliza Boquin.  I’m a licensed psychotherapist, couples therapist, sex therapist, and certified energy healing practitioner in Houston, TX and I want to help you.

My mission is to create safe spaces where Black and Brown people can receive excellent expert care.  My goal is to provide you with an exceptional process to help you get what you want/need out of therapy.

As your therapist, I’ll offer you a process that begins with a free phone consultation.  During that call we’ll discuss what’s bringing you to therapy and the vision you have for change.

Once we get started in session, we’ll explore your relationship history.  We’ll identify negative patterns being repeated. Then, we’ll find out what kind of conflict cycle you’re in and how to break it.  You’ll learn what type of partners you’re drawn to and why.  I’ll teach you new communication skills and how to have those tough conversations that you’ve been avoiding.  

You’ll learn how to overcome performance anxiety, so you can get back to enjoying sex.  

Imagine being able to say, “I feel-, I want-, I like-, Let’s explore-“ with more ease.

If you’re ready to take that step towards transforming your love life then book your complimentary phone consultation.  CLICK HERE to pick a day/time that works best with your schedule.  Don’t spend another day wondering if things will change.  Start creating that change now.